Fine

When we say ‘I am fine’ in response to a ‘how are you?’, I wonder which part of the self is the ‘I’ that is fine, the physical, mental self usually I would imagine.  But what about the whole self, the deeper and somewhat undiscovered self, the being within.  I wonder on this journey if we are really ever altogether fine, because we are usually in the process of searching, we spend our lives searching for ourselves and when we find ourselves, I doubt very much if we would use the word fine, I think we might say ‘I am complete’.

~ lizalizaskysaregrey©2017 

Life Lessons 8

Language does not always match how we feel, we cannot always put our feelings into words. Sometimes words just do not fit, there are not words that can justify the emotions we feel and we are left speechless. When this happens it is okay, the emotions are real. Language is a tool, a medium but not  everything. Sometimes it is only silence that can hold and make sense of the feeling.

~ Liza

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Nature Lessons 142

Our constant thoughts prevent us from just being, they keep us occupied and away from ourselves.  Can you imagine a life without all these systems that keep us occupied, where like the flowers in nature, we can just ‘be’.  Flowers teach us to put away our thoughts and come into being, they teach us to grow.

~ Liza

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