I’m thinking about strength today and what it means.  I have been thinking about my mum, her mum and also myself in a way.  I come from a line of strong women, strong because they had to be and because they had the strength of character to carry on despite the knocks along the way.  I’m thinking about them a lot at the moment as it’s nearly the second anniversary of my mums death.

So what is strength.  I don’t think a strong person is one that is able to express themselves loudly, use power over another, overcome those that are weaker or get themselves noticed because of their presence.  Strength can be found in silence, like in those that keep their own council without the need to rant and rave about life.  Those that are sure of their own strength do not have to demonstrate it outwardly, secure in the knowledge that it is there and available in times of need.

Both my mother and grandmother had a quietness about them that could never be misinterpreted for weakness.  Both loved their family fiercely, but did not need to demonstrate this in any other way apart from in the love they showed.  Both women made great sacrifices for their children who recognised the strength of their love, knowing they would willingly go to the ends of the earth and back if it was demanded.

Real strength is comes from within, when one has the ability to draw on their own power and strength to face life.  It comes from the soul, a soul that has become strong and knowledgable, a soul that understands.  A soul that has learnt that it is not necessary to assert power over others in order to be powerful, a soul that understands the only strength you need is the strength to move forward in life with kindness and love.  We become strong through our own spiritual growth, through the lessons we learn as we move through our lives.

The last few years of my mothers life she was in constant pain, I don’t want to go into the in’s and out’s of the illness but my admiration for her is incredible.   She never complained of her pain, she continued to give out the same love, care and concern as she always had and suffered mainly in silence.  Mum had the biggest soul and a strength that was out of this world, despite her own pain her main concern was for those she loved.  I am not sure if I would be strong enough given the same circumstance and I hope and pray that I am not ever tested.

So here’s to strength today, to all the strong women out there, strong men and those that are needing to draw on their strength at the moment.  May you have all the strength you need to succeed and may you learn from your journey.



Strong Woman




Strong woman you’re amazing, you take my breath away

With a meekness that’s inspiring, I watch you every day

Your strength so understated, but so very clearly there

I see in in all things you do, in the passion of your care.


I know you learnt the hard way, it’s what made you strong

Knocks you had along the way, the days that were so long

But out of all those lessons, you found a strength within

You stood up tall and carried on, oh how did you begin


Strong woman tell me what you learnt, show me the way

I so want to be as strong as you, I’d like to start off today

With a meekness that hits me hard, not weak in any way.

Will I have to understand your pain, to walk with you today.