Ten bits of Me

 

  1. I love fiercely as I was raised in the most wonderful family. My mother raised me and my sister alone, she was amazing, pure strength and love and that’s what she taught us. We are strong because a strong women raised us and we love easily because we were raised in love
  2. I share if I have it to give, as that’s how I was brought up. If one of us has it and the other doesn’t then it is theirs, it belongs to all of us. It all works out in the end because it balances out, we all go through good times and leaner times and it’s good to know your family are there for you. Sharing isn’t only about money, it’s about the giving of yourself.
  3. I wear my heart on my sleeve (you might have noticed) 😉 I was brought up with truth and taught to be honest and therefore can’t be anything else, I say what I think and feel. Mum used to tell me to hold my cards a bit closer to my chest and not expose myself so much, she warned of people who’s intentions are not as good and not to trust so much but I always struggled with this. I think it’s a bit late to change now, I am what I am and I trust in people to do right.
  4. I struggle with rejection, always have. My dad walked out on us as kids, I never really came to terms with that. I married a man exactly the same as my father and he left too (which in hindsight was a godsend). I struggle with being told I’m not good enough and fear not being good enough, it’s something I’ve had to work on throughout my life.
  5. I’m a natural carer, I want to take care of people, especially those who are vulnerable.     I think this is just a natural part of me.  I always wanted to be a nurse as a child until I realised my stomach wouldn’t take it, I’m a tad squeamish. I like to look after people, feed and entertain too.
  6. I’m not good with money, I leave envelopes unopened and don’t budget.  I don’t like money, but I need it. I don’t like talking about money, how much you have etc, it leaves me with a bad taste.  I think money left in wills is not in any way generous, because none of us can take it with us.  If I have money, I want to share it while I’m here.
  7. I’m intuitive, I know what people are thinking and feeling however they are acting.  I’m an empath and tune into the feelings of others.  This has helped in my career of working with people and in life although I have had to learn to separate others feelings from my own.
  8. I’m a good cook, brought up on home cooking by a health fanatic.  I call my place ‘Liza’s Lounge’ and people check in when they arrive on Facebook.  I love to feed people and my friends like me to do the cooking.
  9. I love to walk and I love nature, give me the country side or a beach and I’ll walk for miles.  I will happily walk around the city too, walking clears my head and is something I have to do every day or I don’t sleep.
  10. My biggest achievement in life is being a mother myself and raising a wonderful son. I am so proud to think I have done this and love my son to the ends of the earth and back again.

A quick list of random things about me to suit the Daily Prompt – Ten

Number 11 might have been I hate lists 😉

 

Nature Lessons 153

Sometimes we recognize ourselves in our friends and loved ones. We look at them and see ourselves. Sometimes in these people we see the bits of us we are missing and things we possess perhaps missing in them, we fill in each others gaps. These are the special people who help us feel complete.

~ Liza


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Devastation

I was devastated when you walked out on me.

Surprised, lonely, so confused as I hadn’t seen.

You pulled away the carpet, I fell upon the floor.

You tore me to small pieces as you left the door.

Throughout this devastation you just carried on.

For one moment we’re lovers, next you are gone.

What did you expect of me, stay just where I lay.

I’m sorry my old chaperone, I’ll live another day!

~

Daily Prompt – Devastation

Oversight

Was it just a simple oversight,

that you never considered me.

Am I just that too familiar now,

in you look but don’t really see.

Are my feelings so unimportant,

as it hurts me they don’t count.

Now I’m wondering on my worth,

it’s not adding to a great amount.

Am I just so invisible right now,

I’ve just become part of the norm.

Is it because I’m just so placid,

I’ve never created those storms.

I ask if it’s just a plain oversight,

as it’s important for me to know.

Because as I walk away from you,

I will say why I am needing to go.

Daily Prompt – Oversight